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“Curious," it said. "What you call your decent self doesn't dare look me in the eye! What a mistake people make who say that the man who won't look you in the eye is not to be trusted! As if mere brazenness were a sign of honesty; really, the theory of decency is the most amusing thing in the world.” quote by John Kendrick Bangs
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““Curious," it said. "What you call your decent self doesn't dare look me in the eye! What a mistake people make who say that the man who won't look you in the eye is not to be trusted! As if mere brazenness were a sign of honesty; really, the theory of decency is the most amusing thing in the world.””

John Kendrick Bangs

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote mocks the idea that avoiding eye contact signals dishonesty, suggesting that boldness isn’t synonymous with trustworthiness and that notions of decency are often absurd.

In simple terms: Avoiding eye contact isn’t proof of deceit; decency can be absurd.

Key Takeaway

Question assumptions about honesty and decency.

Themes

honesty trust social norms perception decency

Mood

skeptical ironic

Type

observational critical

When to use this quote

  • interpersonal interactions
  • first impressions
  • negotiations
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

psychology social behavior

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you judge trustworthiness by eye contact?
  • How can we assess honesty beyond superficial cues?
A Different Perspective

Some cultures view eye contact differently, so boldness may be misread.

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