Richard Bandler suggested that one of the major blocks to…
““Richard Bandler suggested that one of the major blocks to creativity was the feeling of knowing you are right. When we think we are absolutely right, we stop seeking new information. To be right is to be certain, and to be certain stops us from being curious. Curiosity and wonder are at the heart of all learning. Plato said that all philosophy begins in wonder. So the feeling of absolute certainty and righteousness causes us to stop seeking and learning. Our healthy shame, which is a feeling of our core boundaries and limitedness, never allows us to believe we know it all. Our healthy shame is nourishing in that it moves us to seek new information and learn new things. Inferiority can be experienced as a healthy limit to our abilities.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Absolute certainty blocks curiosity; feeling certain stops us from seeking new information, while healthy shame encourages learning.
In simple terms: Being sure stops curiosity; shame drives learning.
Embrace uncertainty, welcome shame as a learning cue.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal development
- education
- creative work
- team brainstorming
- leadership training
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you recognize when certainty limits you?
- What role does healthy shame play in your growth?
Overemphasis on certainty can lead to paralysis and missed opportunities.