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“See, this favorite child of mine changes by the day. No, by the minute, actually. Who is this favorite child of mine? It’s the particular one who is pissing me off least at any given moment in time. They have all had their fair share of being the favorite and they have all inspired the “Oh my God…” quote by Jill Smokler
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““See, this favorite child of mine changes by the day. No, by the minute, actually. Who is this favorite child of mine? It’s the particular one who is pissing me off least at any given moment in time. They have all had their fair share of being the favorite and they have all inspired the “Oh my God, did I really give birth to you” moments as well. It’s one of the best things about having more than one child: there’s always another one to go to when one of the others is driving you up a fucking wall.””

Jill Smokler

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A parent’s frustration shifts quickly among children, so the “favorite” changes based on which child is least irritating at the moment.

In simple terms: Parenting frustration rotates among kids.

Key Takeaway

Accept that no child is permanently favored.

Themes

parenting family dynamics frustration

Mood

exasperated reflective

Type

advice personal anecdote

When to use this quote

  • daily family life
  • conflict resolution
  • parental self‑care

Key Concepts

emotional regulation attachment theory

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you maintain fairness when irritation spikes?
  • What strategies help you stay patient?
A Different Perspective

Children’s needs and moods are fluid, so favoritism is fleeting.

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