And here is my sweet little Annamaria,’ she added…
““And here is my sweet little Annamaria,’ she added, tenderly caressing a little girl of three years old, who had not made a noise for the last two minutes; ‘And she is always so gentle and quiet—Never was there such a quiet little thing!’ But unfortunately in bestowing these embraces, a pin in her ladyship’s head dress slightly scratching the child’s neck, produced from this pattern of gentleness such violent screams, as could hardly be outdone by any creature professedly noisy. The mother’s consternation was excessive; but it could not surpass the alarm of the Miss Steeles, and every thing was done by all three, in so critical an emergency, which affection could suggest as likely to assuage the agonies of the little sufferer. She was seated in her mother’s lap, covered with kisses, her wound bathed with lavender-water, by one of the Miss Steeles, who was on her knees to attend her, and her mouth stuffed with sugar plums by the other. With such a reward for her tears, the child was too wise to cease crying.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A mother’s gentle attempt to soothe her child leads to unintended pain, highlighting how well‑meaning actions can cause suffering.
In simple terms: Kind gestures can sometimes cause harm.
Consider consequences before acting.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- childcare
- family dynamics
- hospital settings
- emergency response
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When did kindness backfire for you?
- How can we better anticipate outcomes?
Good intentions don’t guarantee good outcomes.