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“Very often in everyday life one sees that by losing one's temper with someone who has already lost his, one does not gain anything but only sets out upon the path of stupidity. He who has enough self-control to stand firm at the moment when the other person is in a temper, wins in the end. It is…” quote by Hazrat Inayat Khan
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“Very often in everyday life one sees that by losing one's temper with someone who has already lost his, one does not gain anything but only sets out upon the path of stupidity. He who has enough self-control to stand firm at the moment when the other person is in a temper, wins in the end. It is not he who has spoken a hundred words aloud who has won; it is he who has perhaps spoken only one word.”

Hazrat Inayat Khan

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Patience and restraint in conflict yield true victory, not loud arguments

In simple terms: Self‑control wins over anger

Key Takeaway

Stay calm in others' fury

Themes

self‑control conflict resolution wisdom

Mood

calm thoughtful

Type

advice spiritual

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • workplace
  • family disputes

Key Concepts

mindfulness emotional intelligence

Questions to Reflect On

  • What can you say in one word to defuse tension?
  • How does restraint change outcomes?
A Different Perspective

Silence may be misinterpreted as weakness

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