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That drew a laugh from Jessamy, but he said, after a…

“That drew a laugh from Jessamy, but he said, after a moment: “You had better flay me. It was my fault—all my fault!” “I was wondering how long it would be before you contrived to convince yourself that you were to blame,” said Alverstoke caustically. “I haven’t the slightest wish to know how you…” quote by Georgette Heyer
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““That drew a laugh from Jessamy, but he said, after a moment: “You had better flay me. It was my fault—all my fault!” “I was wondering how long it would be before you contrived to convince yourself that you were to blame,” said Alverstoke caustically. “I haven’t the slightest wish to know how you arrived at such an addlebrained conclusion, so don’t put yourself to the trouble of telling me!””

Georgette Heyer

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A character blames himself for a mishap, while another dismisses his guilt, highlighting denial and the absurdity of self‑blame.

In simple terms: Self‑blame can be absurd when dismissed.

Key Takeaway

Question the validity of self‑blame.

Themes

humor psychology communication

Mood

wry insightful

Type

literary conversational

When to use this quote

  • conflict resolution
  • self‑reflection
  • relationship dynamics

Key Concepts

guilt denial self‑criticism

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do we sometimes reject our own guilt?
  • How can humor help defuse blame?
A Different Perspective

Denial may prevent genuine accountability.

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