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“When a man has seen the woman whom he would have chosen if he had intended to marry speedily, his remaining a bachelor will usually depend on her resolution rather than on his.” quote by George Eliot
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“When a man has seen the woman whom he would have chosen if he had intended to marry speedily, his remaining a bachelor will usually depend on her resolution rather than on his.”

George Eliot

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A man who quickly chose a partner may later stay single, relying on her resolve rather than his own.

In simple terms: His bachelorhood depends on her choices.

Key Takeaway

Understand how partner decisions affect personal freedom.

Themes

marriage choice dependency

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

literary social

When to use this quote

  • courtship
  • life planning
  • gender roles

Key Concepts

feminist literature social critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • Whose responsibility is it to shape a relationship?
  • How does swift choice affect long‑term freedom?
A Different Perspective

Reliance on another can limit autonomy.

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