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“Mrs. Tulliver was what is called a good-tempered person,–never cried, when she was a baby, on any slighter ground than hunger and pins; and from the cradle upward had been healthy, fair, plump, and dull-witted; in short, the flower of her family for beauty and amiability. But milk and mildness are…” quote by George Eliot
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““Mrs. Tulliver was what is called a good-tempered person,–never cried, when she was a baby, on any slighter ground than hunger and pins; and from the cradle upward had been healthy, fair, plump, and dull-witted; in short, the flower of her family for beauty and amiability. But milk and mildness are not the best things for keeping, and when they turn only a little sour, they may disagree with young stomachs seriously. I have often wondered whether those early Madonnas of Raphael, with the blond faces and somewhat stupid expression, kept their placidity undisturbed when their strong-limbed, strong-willed boys got a little too old to do without clothing. I think they must have been given to feeble remonstrance, getting more and more peevish as it became more and more ineffectual.””

George Eliot

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A gentle, pleasant woman can become irritable when her temperament is challenged by external pressures and her own weaknesses.

In simple terms: Good people can become sour when stressed.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and manage stress to maintain kindness.

Themes

temperament stress irritability family dynamics self-awareness

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

observational literary

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • marriage
  • workplace relationships
  • personal health

Key Concepts

psychology character development social expectations

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you respond when your patience runs thin?
  • What supports help maintain calm?
A Different Perspective

Even the most pleasant individuals may become harsh if not supported.

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