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I am not at all sure that the majority of the human race…

“I am not at all sure that the majority of the human race have not been ugly, and even among those "lords of their kind," the British, squat figures, ill-shapen nostrils, and dingy complexions are not startling exceptions. Yet there is a great deal of family love amongst us. I have a friend or two…” quote by George Eliot
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““I am not at all sure that the majority of the human race have not been ugly, and even among those "lords of their kind," the British, squat figures, ill-shapen nostrils, and dingy complexions are not startling exceptions. Yet there is a great deal of family love amongst us. I have a friend or two whose class of features is such that the Apollo curl on the summit of their brows would be decidedly trying; yet to my certain knowledge tender hearts have beaten for them, and their miniatures—flattering, but still not lovely—are kissed in secret by motherly lips. I have seen many an excellent matron, who could have never in her best days have been handsome, and yet she had a packet of yellow love-letters in a private drawer, and sweet children showered kisses on her sallow cheeks. And I believe there have been plenty of young heroes, of middle stature and feeble beards, who have felt quite sure they could never love anything more insignificant than a Diana, and yet have found themselves in middle life happily settled with a wife who waddles. Yes! Thank God; human feeling is like the mighty rivers that bless the earth: it does not wait for beauty—it flows with resistless force and brings beauty with it.””

George Eliot

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love and affection are not limited by physical appearance; human kindness transcends superficial judgments.

In simple terms: Love isn’t about looks.

Key Takeaway

Value inner qualities over outward form.

Themes

love beauty humanity

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • friendship building
  • self‑esteem workshops

Key Concepts

social bias emotional resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you judge others by looks?
  • How can you nurture love beyond appearance?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing love can ignore practical compatibility.

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