Skip to content

himself, and her mother had been a great beauty who cared…

“himself, and her mother had been a great beauty who cared only to go to parties and amuse herself with gay people. She had not wanted a little girl at all, and when Mary was born she handed her over to the care of an Ayah, who was made to understand that if she wished to please the Mem Sahib she…” quote by Frances Hodgson Burnett
Download Open image
““himself, and her mother had been a great beauty who cared only to go to parties and amuse herself with gay people. She had not wanted a little girl at all, and when Mary was born she handed her over to the care of an Ayah, who was made to understand that if she wished to please the Mem Sahib she must keep the child out of sight as much as possible. So when””

Frances Hodgson Burnett

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A mother’s vanity and desire for social approval lead her to neglect her child, entrusting her to a caretaker and hiding her from public view.

In simple terms: A mother hides her child to maintain reputation.

Key Takeaway

Recognize how personal image can harm loved ones.

Themes

neglect social status parenting

Mood

sad reflective

Type

literary critical.

When to use this quote

  • colonial India
  • upper-class families
  • childcare decisions
  • social gatherings

Key Concepts

classism psychology family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does societal pressure affect parental choices?
  • What are the hidden costs of maintaining appearances?
A Different Perspective

The child's emotional needs are ignored, causing long‑term trauma.

★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet

More by Frances Hodgson Burnett

Explore all 296 Frances Hodgson Burnett quotes

More Beauty quotes

Browse all 24,662 Beauty quotes