In closing, new therapists are encouraged to be themselves…
““In closing, new therapists are encouraged to be themselves with clients rather than trying to fulfill the role of a therapist. Perhaps Kahn says it best: When all is said and done, nothing in our work may be more important than our willingness to bring as much of ourselves as possible to the therapeutic session… One of the great satisfactions of this work comes at the moment students realize that when they enter the consulting room, they don’t need to don a therapist mask, a therapist voice, a therapist posture, and a therapist vocabulary. They can discard those accouterments because they have much, much more than that to give their clients.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Advocates therapists to bring their authentic selves to sessions, discarding rigid professional masks.
In simple terms: Therapists should be genuine, not just role‑players.
Be authentic with clients.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- training programs
- supervision meetings
- client intake
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How much of myself is appropriate to share?
- What safeguards protect therapeutic boundaries?
Over‑authenticity may blur boundaries or shift focus.