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“One reason I can be more tolerant than most is that as a therapist I have the advantage of information about my patients that most people are not privy to. And I discover that we rarely if ever see the totality of another in ordinary social intercourse. When an individual appears mean and lazy, we…” quote by Alan Loy McGinnis
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“One reason I can be more tolerant than most is that as a therapist I have the advantage of information about my patients that most people are not privy to. And I discover that we rarely if ever see the totality of another in ordinary social intercourse. When an individual appears mean and lazy, we are only seeing one part of the person, elicited by a particular set of circumstances on a particular day, and we do well to wait a while before concluding that what we see is the whole person.”

Alan Loy McGinnis

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

We rarely see a person's full character in brief interactions; patience prevents premature judgments.

In simple terms: People are complex; don't judge quickly.

Key Takeaway

Pause before forming conclusions.

Themes

empathy patience understanding judgment humanity

Mood

thoughtful calm inquisitive

Type

philosophical reflective advice

When to use this quote

  • first meetings
  • online interactions
  • conflict mediation
  • team collaborations
  • customer service

Key Concepts

psychology social perception mindfulness

Questions to Reflect On

  • What assumptions do you make about others?
  • How can you seek fuller context before judging?
A Different Perspective

People may hide true selves, leading to misinterpretation.

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