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“And to top everything he's got this problem he can't let her know how he feels: What-he's shy? Shy! Tell me who in this goddamn world is shy? Young, old, the lame and halt. Clobber you over the head with what they feel. Oh Man I wish just once in my long fucked-up life someone had come up to me…” quote by E.L. Doctorow
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““And to top everything he's got this problem he can't let her know how he feels: What-he's shy? Shy! Tell me who in this goddamn world is shy? Young, old, the lame and halt. Clobber you over the head with what they feel. Oh Man I wish just once in my long fucked-up life someone had come up to me who was too shy to tell me what they thought of me...””

E.L. Doctorow

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Shyness prevents honest expression, causing frustration and missed connections; confronting it is essential for authentic interaction.

In simple terms: Shyness blocks honest communication.

Key Takeaway

Speak openly despite fear.

Themes

communication shyness authenticity frustration

Mood

introspective hopeful

Type

advice motivational

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • workplace meetings
  • friendship building
  • public speaking

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What holds you back from speaking up?
  • How could honesty improve your relationships?
A Different Perspective

Overcoming shyness may risk rejection or embarrassment.

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