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But the anger is not related to him. Long ago, in the…

“But the anger is not related to him. Long ago, in the course of the sessions with Mother Sugar, I learned that the resentment, the anger, is impersonal. It is the disease of women in our time. I can see it in women’s faces, their voices, every day, or in the letters that come to the office. The…” quote by Doris Lessing
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““But the anger is not related to him. Long ago, in the course of the sessions with Mother Sugar, I learned that the resentment, the anger, is impersonal. It is the disease of women in our time. I can see it in women’s faces, their voices, every day, or in the letters that come to the office. The woman’s emotion: resentment against injustice, an impersonal poison. The unlucky ones, who do not know it is impersonal, turn it against their men. The lucky ones like me—fight it. It is a tiring fight.””

Doris Lessing

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Resentment in women is portrayed as a collective, impersonal disease stemming from injustice, which can be misdirected or fought.

In simple terms: Women’s anger is a shared, impersonal poison caused by unfairness.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and confront systemic injustice rather than personalizing anger.

Themes

gender justice psychology resilience

Mood

frustrated hopeful determined

Type

critical reflective inspirational

When to use this quote

  • workplace
  • family dynamics
  • activism
  • personal relationships

Key Concepts

collective trauma impersonal anger social critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does societal injustice fuel personal resentment?
  • What strategies can prevent misdirected anger?
A Different Perspective

Personal anger may mask deeper systemic issues, making change harder.

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