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The point here for the best kids is to inculcate their…

“The point here for the best kids is to inculcate their sense that it’s never about being seen. It’s never. If they can get that inculcated, the Show won’t fuck them up, Schtitt thinks. If they can forget everything but the game when all of you out there outside the fence see only them and want…” quote by David Foster Wallace
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““The point here for the best kids is to inculcate their sense that it’s never about being seen. It’s never. If they can get that inculcated, the Show won’t fuck them up, Schtitt thinks. If they can forget everything but the game when all of you out there outside the fence see only them and want only them and the game’s incidental to you, for you it’s about entertainment and personality, it’s about the statue, but if they can get inculcated right they’ll never be slaves to the statue, they’ll never blow their brains out after winning an event when they win, or dive out a third-story window when they start to stop getting poked at or profiled, when their blossom starts to fade. Whether or not you mean to, babe, you chew them up, it’s what you do.””

David Foster Wallace

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Advocates teaching children to focus on the game, not external validation, to avoid becoming enslaved by fame or pressure.

In simple terms: Teach kids to value the process, not applause.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize intrinsic motivation over external rewards.

Themes

growth resilience authenticity

Mood

reflective cautionary

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • sports coaching
  • education
  • parenting
  • mental health counseling

Key Concepts

intrinsic motivation psychological health performance pressure

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you reinforce internal focus?
  • What signs indicate external influence?
A Different Perspective

External pressures can still infiltrate despite training.

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