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“with friends at a local coffee shop Posting comments on discussion boards rather than communicating face to face in social settings Conversing via e-mails and text messages rather than phone conversations Being a part of anonymous online support groups rather than attending local support group…” quote by Charles H. Elliott
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““with friends at a local coffee shop Posting comments on discussion boards rather than communicating face to face in social settings Conversing via e-mails and text messages rather than phone conversations Being a part of anonymous online support groups rather than attending local support group meetings Cybersnooping friends' profiles rather than getting to know them personally Of course, some of these ways of "techno-relating" are fun and beneficial. The social components of the Web appeal to many people because they offer easier, safer, and quicker ways to connect to others. No one really knows to what extent isolation from overuse of technological ways of relating to other people contributes to the development of BPD or other emotional problems. However, technology can prevent the in-person contact you need to build relationships and trust. To get better, people with BPD need real relationships, real social support, and real feedback about their behavior.””

Charles H. Elliott

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Technology can ease connections but may reduce deep, face‑to‑face relationships, contributing to emotional issues like BPD.

In simple terms: Tech helps but can hurt real bonds.

Key Takeaway

Seek in‑person support and honest feedback.

Themes

relationships technology mental health social isolation trust

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

advice analysis

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • support groups
  • offline friendships
  • mindful tech use

Key Concepts

digital communication social support emotional regulation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you balance online and offline connections?
  • What signs show technology is harming your relationships?
A Different Perspective

Overreliance on digital contact may not fully replace in‑person intimacy.

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