John de Ruiter

Your whole life is really only all about that dear place in you where you know you’ve realized, you love, and you…

— John de Ruiter

What you really are isn’t loyal to your self. It won’t favor your self. It will turn your self into what you…

— John de Ruiter

This life is a stellar opportunity to realize what you are, to bring what you first are into manifestation.

— John de Ruiter

Your being is real and it gets to have everything. It gets to have your preferences, your person, and all of your…

— John de Ruiter

The best that you can do for your mind is to have no in-between state in your heart.

— John de Ruiter

When you really love, that makes you feel unsure in your self, even though it is love that reaches your heart.

— John de Ruiter

Your mind is like a servant to you. Whatever you are being in the midst of your mind, your mind is going…

— John de Ruiter

When your heart is open and soft, it isn't actually vulnerable: it can withstand anything.

— John de Ruiter

There's a depth of meaning all on its own in awareness being gentled. From within the subtlety of being gentled, the level…

— John de Ruiter

It isn't the kind of profession that you have that makes you flourish; it's what you are coming from, within, that makes…

— John de Ruiter

High level womanness occurs and is freed when the filters and the boundaries in your womanness are no longer of use to…

— John de Ruiter

For you to be free of your thinking mind, that will cost you the way that you've put your self together. It…

— John de Ruiter

Your real home isn't your patterned self. It isn't your thinking. It isn't your feeling. Your real home is the deepest within…

— John de Ruiter

When you, awareness, are mastered by the deepest that you know the truth of, then you are no longer awareness. You are…

— John de Ruiter

What moves you, you move. That brings your sexuality into your being, through your heart, and that movement brings your being, through…

— John de Ruiter

When you move as openness and softness of heart you’re moving in this life within your self in the same way that…

— John de Ruiter

Everyone is giving something. Everyone is giving what has their heart. What I'm giving you is what has my heart.

— John de Ruiter

If you don't abdicate or misuse your power, pressure takes you into realization.

— John de Ruiter

Your life has little purpose if you are separate from your own knowledge within.

— John de Ruiter

If you die of cancer with only openness and softness in your heart, you will live and die integrating your self.

— John de Ruiter

Your deeper sense isn’t a springboard; it’s a landing place. If you draw conclusions too quickly or too slowly, you’ll establish your…

— John de Ruiter

Well-being is like water moving down hill. When you block the water, the water turns into a reservoir, reservoir of well-being instead…

— John de Ruiter

Where the observer is at first a real goodness realized, later it is a sophisticated power holder. The observer is given power…

— John de Ruiter

The new ground that you form in your living is a new self, a new self that isn't at all of the…

— John de Ruiter

You’re not limited to your body as you’ve known your body. In the deepest levels of you being in your deepest body,…

— John de Ruiter

Be warmed in your heart in the midst of your sexuality. Your response to your own sexuality is that you are warmly…

— John de Ruiter

When a drop of water touches a drop of water there is no holding back - it joins. Water responds to water.…

— John de Ruiter

Prayer doesn’t work in the way that you think. If you pray for good health and it is genuine, you might be…

— John de Ruiter

When you are unconditionally open and soft in your heart while your self empties and while your self fills, you live fulfilling…

— John de Ruiter

As awareness recedes into the deep, as when it falls asleep, everything seemingly ends. All that it takes is a gentle touch…

— John de Ruiter

The softer your heart is the less that your past is forming your present and your future. When there is openness and…

— John de Ruiter

The more that you're knowing, the more you will be feeling and seeing, the more that you will hurt in your heart,…

— John de Ruiter