You cannot dwell in your being while your self inhabits your heart. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
The place of connection or separation in relationship to your own being, the place in your self where this occurs, is in… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Everything needs to touch your heart. Everything that touches your heart brings out the deep in you. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you are being true to what you know in your heart, your whole heart becomes clean. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
If you are all open in your heart, you are clean. If you are all open in your self, you are naive. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you are gentled and quieted in your heart, you are incapable of relating to disappointment, incapable of feeling sorry for your… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you're true to your heart, you're infusing your self with meaning. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
It's true for you to soften within, to let your heart open, to let your heart soften. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
As soon as you give your heart to something new you will immediately be able to think in a way that is… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
The more that you are being your ideas, the less human you are. The deeper your realization, being in your heart, the… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you are on your deathbed, and you look back into your life, it won’t matter to you what you have done… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When your heart softens and opens, your being becomes matter in your self. That is the change of matter and what matters… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Let your sexuality move in whichever way it does. Do nothing to guide it or control it. What brings it into balance… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Find the most delicate qualities within; then treat these qualities as tiny little seeds that you would plant in your heart, with… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Start out identifying what you know are delicacies of being within, tiny little touches of knowledge that has beingness in it, special… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
What moves you, you move. That brings your sexuality into your being, through your heart, and that movement brings your being, through… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you move as openness and softness of heart you’re moving in this life within your self in the same way that… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you are free of your self in your heart, your labouring within your self is therapeutic to your self. It is… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you come from your heart in the midst of your self and in your life, you’ll be like a salmon turning… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Give others their dignity by opening and softening in your heart to them. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Your past determines your future unless you’re clearly moving past your self and responding to what you know in your heart. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you rest in the weakness of your heart, your being moves and your self becomes quieted. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Whatever you know in your heart, live at the expense of anything else. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
The best that you can do for your mind is to have no in-between state in your heart. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you really love, that makes you feel unsure in your self, even though it is love that reaches your heart. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When your heart is open and soft, it isn't actually vulnerable: it can withstand anything. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Everyone is giving something. Everyone is giving what has their heart. What I'm giving you is what has my heart. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
If you die of cancer with only openness and softness in your heart, you will live and die integrating your self. — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Be warmed in your heart in the midst of your sexuality. Your response to your own sexuality is that you are warmly… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
When you are unconditionally open and soft in your heart while your self empties and while your self fills, you live fulfilling… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
The softer your heart is the less that your past is forming your present and your future. When there is openness and… — John de Ruiter Copy Share Image
Your deeper sense isn’t a springboard; it’s a landing place. If you draw conclusions too quickly or too slowly, you’ll establish your self where… — John de Ruiter Copy Share
Relate to the little instead of relating to the big. The little is indomitable. — John de Ruiter Copy Share
When you, awareness, are mastered by the deepest that you know the truth of, then you are no longer awareness. You are oneness aware… — John de Ruiter Copy Share
The let-go of the last little bit is the biggest because, in that, there is no return. — John de Ruiter Copy Share
If you die of cancer with only openness and softness in your heart, you will live and die integrating your self. — John de Ruiter Copy Share
When you move as openness and softness of heart you’re moving in this life within your self in the same way that your being… — John de Ruiter Copy Share
The more open you are within, the more capacity you will have to know, to see, and to love. — John de Ruiter Copy Share
While sincerity is to carry the weight of knowledge in the self, it is also to be the lightness of being clean. — John de Ruiter Copy Share
When awareness believes what it knows is true, the truth of what awareness really is, moves. That movement is love. — John de Ruiter Copy Share
For you to be free of your thinking mind, that will cost you the way that you've put your self together. It will cost… — John de Ruiter Copy Share
The formless cannot be based on the form. The form needs to be based on the formless. — John de Ruiter Copy Share
To really evolve as awareness, be just like your own being in a self like yours and on a planet like this one. — John de Ruiter Copy Share
When you lay down your life for what you are after you've died, you're clean. — John de Ruiter Copy Share
