If each side had been frankly contending for its own real…
“If each side had been frankly contending for its own real wish, they would all have kept within the bounds of reason and courtesy; but just because the contention is reversed and each side is fighting the other side’s battle, all the bitterness which really flows from thwarted self-righteousness and obstinacy and from the accumulated grudges of the last ten years is concealed from them by the nominal or official "Unselfishness" of what they are doing or, at least, held to be excused by it.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
When parties fight each other’s battles, true motives are hidden, leading to bitterness masked by false self‑lessness.
In simple terms: Fighting others’ wars hides true motives and breeds bitterness.
Key Takeaway
Seek honest, self‑aligned conflict resolution.
Themes
conflict
self‑interest
honesty
Mood
critical
analytical
Type
philosophical
thought‑provoking
When to use this quote
- political negotiations
- family disputes
- workplace disagreements
Key Concepts
philosophical critique
social dynamics
ethical deception
Questions to Reflect On
- What battles are you fighting for others?
- How can genuine self‑interest be expressed ethically?
A Different Perspective
May oversimplify complex motivations.