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“Talking to the parents of older kids was helpful for me, since the parents of kids the same age as yours won't admit how horrible their children are. ... you can either practice being right or practice being kind. Screaming in the car helped. [p. 94]” quote by Anne Lamott
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““Talking to the parents of older kids was helpful for me, since the parents of kids the same age as yours won't admit how horrible their children are. ... you can either practice being right or practice being kind. Screaming in the car helped. [p. 94]””

Anne Lamott

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Parents often deny their children's flaws, so observing others can reveal truths; choose kindness over being right, even if it feels like screaming in a car.

In simple terms: Observe others to learn, choose kindness over being right.

Key Takeaway

Practice kindness, not just being right.

Themes

parenting self‑awareness kindness

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

advice personal growth

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • parent‑teacher meetings
  • driving with kids
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

empathy self‑reflection

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you model kindness when others are defensive?
  • What does “practice being kind” look like daily?
A Different Perspective

Kindness may feel uncomfortable and can be misinterpreted.

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