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“As she bent over the child she realized that the tragedy of death had to do entirely with what was left unfulfilled. She was ashamed that such a simple insight should have eluded her all these years. Make something beautiful of your life. Wasn't that the adage of Sister Mary Joseph Praise lived…” quote by Abraham Verghese
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““As she bent over the child she realized that the tragedy of death had to do entirely with what was left unfulfilled. She was ashamed that such a simple insight should have eluded her all these years. Make something beautiful of your life. Wasn't that the adage of Sister Mary Joseph Praise lived by? Hema's second thought was that she, deliverer of countless babies, she who'd rejected the kind of marriage her parents wanted for her, she who felt there were too many children in the world and felt no pressure to add to that number, understood for the first time that having a child was about cheating death. Children were the foot wedged in the closing door, the glimmer of hope that in reincarnation there would be some house to go to, even if one came back as a dog, or a mouse, or a flea that lived on the bodies of men. If, as Matron and Sister Mary Joseph Praise believed, there was a raising of the dead, then a child would be sure to see that its parents were awakened. Provided, of course, the child didn't die with you in a plane crash.””

Abraham Verghese

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The quote reflects on how creating life offers a way to defy death, giving meaning and hope beyond one’s own mortality.

In simple terms: Having children can feel like cheating death.

Key Takeaway

Cherish and create meaning through life.

Themes

mortality hope legacy family meaning

Mood

reflective hopeful melancholic

Type

philosophical inspirational literary

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • grief counseling
  • life planning
  • spiritual reflection

Key Concepts

existentialism reincarnation psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does creating life change your view of death?
  • What responsibilities come with seeing a child as a legacy?
A Different Perspective

It may overlook the pain of loss and the responsibility of raising a child.

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