“Many salespeople make the mistake of talking about how great they are and what they bring to the table. If they would… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Be a Discovery Expert. Be inquisitive. A wonderful way to get to know someone is simply by asking questions. The more you… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Even if you’re not broadcasting your personal life to the universe through social media, choose your confidants wisely and with discretion. Your… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Establishing social certainty helps you build trust, develop rapport, and strengthen your connection. However, the right questions might lead you to find… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“As you rock rapport, you will open doors, earn loyalty, establish long-term relationships, and promote mutually respectful interaction. How can you break… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Usually this kind of self-serving “honesty” will sabotage your success. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all. Realize… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“From a leadership lean, are you the BOSS that creates fear and rules with an “iron fist” or are you a LEADER… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Most everyone has the classic question stamped on their forehead that asks, “What’s in It for Me?” It is not a matter… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“The dictionary defines discretion as the quality of showing discernment, the ability to make responsible decisions, and behaving or speaking in such… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“The Gift that Keeps on Giving I once had a lovely real estate client named Jane who was an elderly lady living… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“11 Benefits of Asking Questions “The important thing is not to stop questioning. Curiosity has its own reason for existing.” – Albert… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Every time a new client hires me for a keynote, workshop, or coaching session, the first questions I ask them are, “What… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“In our digital world today, handwritten notes are an “old school” way to make people feel important. Email is easy and Facebook… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Check Your Ego at the Door. A big part of creating valuable, long-term connections requires setting your ego aside. For some, it’s… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“While some may consider being friendly an appealing personality trait, I challenge you to see it as a valuable skill. In a… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“If you want to impress someone with how much you know, the best thing you can do is talk to them about… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Clown Around . . . Nancy Weil of The Laugh Academy gives people she meets red clown noses and shows them how… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“When you ask people about themselves, are you just being polite or do you truly want to know? When you focus your… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Strategic Commonality “Social media has capitalized on helping people find others who share their similar interests, shared experiences, and common passions. With… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“For leaders, trust can make all the difference in the viability of their teams. When there is mistrust or low connectivity, teams… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“On the other hand, when presented with a service-minded professional who strives to deliver the best possible experience, aren’t you duly impressed?… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Memory Makes Magic Happen “Have you ever been away from someone for a while and when you are reunited after a long… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“In medicine, prescription before diagnosis is malpractice. Asking the right questions will help you discover a person’s needs and concerns so that… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“When all else fails, Mother Nature has provided you with a great social default for finding commonality with others. Since weather is… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Wise leaders know that being personable ad friendly is the highly-prized personality for employees who are meeting, greeting, and engaging on the… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Socrates would teach his pupils by asking them intelligent and probing questions. By using their critical thinking skills and problem-solving abilities, they… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“The irony is that their enthusiasm for personal revelation can backfire badly and have the opposite effect. People become their own worst… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“So, what if you are not naturally funny? Don’t get discouraged. Do your research, gather ideas, and find your fun. Seek ways… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“What About the Social Introvert? Perhaps you don’t want to talk! Maybe you prefer to speak only when responding to another person.… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“When Humor Falls Flat “Humor is not a "one-size fits all" guarantee. What is hilarious to one person may be offensive to… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“UN-Impressive Acts of Indiscretion • Forwarding other people's emails without getting permission. • Throwing other people under the bus to save yourself.… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Use questions to find out where people are, where they want to be, and how you can help them cross the great… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Earning Trust & Cooperation The number one thing which stands between you and meeting a new person is tension. What is the… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“A discreet person . . . • is strong, yet humble; • expresses genuine concern and interest; • exercises caution to avoid… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Can I Trust You? Years ago, I heard Lou Holtz speak at a national conference. His rock-solid reputation preceded him—he is the… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“The South is known for its "Southern Hospitality," and I feel fortunate to have grown up in such a friendly and caring… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“Oversharing Why do some people feel the need to share their deepest, darkest secrets with complete strangers or on social media? How… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“When I was a young and aspiring speaker, I sought mentorship from a man who had been a Dale Carnegie trainer for… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image
“I once knew a woman who had a reputation as a snob and a gossip. I would avoid her at parties because… — Susan C. Young Copy Share Image