Beauty Quote by Yukio Mishima
““In the woodblock prints of the Genroku period one often finds the features of a pair of lovers to be surprisingly similar, with little to distinguish the man from the woman. The universal ideal of beauty in Greek sculpture likewise approaches a close resemblance between the male and female. Might this not be one of the secrets of love? Might it not be that through the innermost recesses of love there courses an unattainable longing in which both the man and the woman desire to become the exact image of the other? Might not this longing drive them on, leading at last to a tragic reaction in which they seek to attain the impossible by going to the opposite extreme? In short, since their mutual love cannot achieve a perfection of mutual identity, is there not a mental process whereby each of them tries instead to emphasize their points of dissimilarity—the man his manliness and the woman her womanliness—and uses this very revolt as a form of coquetry toward the other? Or if they do achieve a similarity, it unfortunately lasts for only a fleeting moment of illusion. Because, as the girl becomes more bold and the boy more shy, there comes an instant at which they pass each other going in opposite directions, overshooting their mark and passing on beyond to some point where the mark no longer exists.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Decay of the Angel, 1971
Love seeks perfect mirroring, but inevitable differences cause tension and fleeting unity, leading to paradoxical attraction and separation.
In simple terms: Love tries to become identical, yet differences create both attraction and conflict.
Accept both similarity and difference in love.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- artistic inspiration
- gender studies
- psychological counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do differences enrich a relationship?
- When does similarity become limiting?
Assumes universal desire for sameness, ignoring cultural variance.