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“I had formed the habit of treating those parts of my character that were in any way my responsibility to exhortations so wholesome and sensible as to be comical. As a part of my system of self-discipline, dating from childhood, I constantly told myself it would be better to die than become a…” quote by Yukio Mishima
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““I had formed the habit of treating those parts of my character that were in any way my responsibility to exhortations so wholesome and sensible as to be comical. As a part of my system of self-discipline, dating from childhood, I constantly told myself it would be better to die than become a lukewarm person, an unmanly person, a person who does not clearly know his likes and dislikes, a person who wants only to be loved without knowing how to love. This exhortation of course had a possible applicability to the parts of my character for which I was to blame, but so far as the other parts were concerned, the parts for which I was not to blame, it was an impossible requirement from the beginning.””

Yukio Mishima

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Temple of the Golden Pavilion, 1956

Self-discipline demands confronting uncomfortable truths about oneself, but some aspects are beyond personal control, making total self-mastery impossible.

In simple terms: Self-discipline must accept limits of personal control.

Key Takeaway

Balance self-improvement with realistic expectations.

Themes

self-discipline identity personal growth

Mood

introspective serious

Type

philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • personal coaching
  • creative writing

Key Concepts

self-awareness ethical responsibility psychological resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • Which parts of yourself can you truly change?
  • How do you handle aspects beyond your control?
A Different Perspective

Complete self-control is unattainable.

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