Beginnings and ends Quote by Yamamoto Tsunetomo
“The basic meaning of etiquette is to be quick at both the beginning and end and tranquil in the middle.”
About This Quote
Source Treatise: Hagakure, 1716
Etiquette should be swift at beginnings and endings, maintaining calm throughout interactions.
In simple terms: Start and finish promptly, stay calm in between.
Key Takeaway
Practice promptness and composure in social rituals.
Themes
etiquette
timeliness
calmness
discipline
Mood
contemplative
balanced
Type
guidance
cultural
When to use this quote
- business meetings
- formal dinners
- ceremonial rites
Key Concepts
Bushido
social harmony
mindfulness
Questions to Reflect On
- In what contexts does rapid opening and closing feel inappropriate?
- How does calmness affect conflict resolution?
A Different Perspective
May be too rigid for spontaneous situations.
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