Long time Quote by Xinran
““(While interviewing The University Student:) 'Oh, poor Xinran. You haven't even got the various categories of women straight. How can you possibly hope to understand men? Let me tell you. When men have been drinking, they come out with a set of definitions for women. Lovers are "swordfish", tasty but with sharp bones. "Personal secretaries" are "carp", the longer you "stew" them, the more flavour they have. Other men's wives are "Japanese puffer fish", trying a mouthful could be the end of you, but risking death is a source of pride.' 'And what about their own wives?' 'Salt cod, because it keeps for a long time. When there is no other food, salt cod is cheap and convenient.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The University Student, date unknown
Women are categorized with vivid metaphors reflecting men's perceptions and attitudes, highlighting superficial judgments and cultural stereotypes.
In simple terms: Men use food metaphors to label women, showing shallow views.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and challenge reductive stereotypes.
Themes
gender
perception
stereotypes
culture
communication
Mood
critical
reflective
analytical
Type
philosophical
social commentary
When to use this quote
- dating
- cross‑cultural interactions
- media analysis
- education
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
metaphor
social labeling
cultural critique
Questions to Reflect On
- How do such labels affect women's self‑esteem?
- What can we do to move beyond simplistic categories?
A Different Perspective
These metaphors oversimplify complex identities and can reinforce bias.
