Children Quote by Witi Ihimaera
““He loved them deeply, but sometimes love becomes a power game between the ambitions that parents have for their children and the ambitions that children have for themselves.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Whale Rider by Witi Ihimaera, 1992
Parental expectations can turn love into a struggle for control, conflicting with a child's own aspirations.
In simple terms: Love can become a power struggle over ambitions.
Key Takeaway
Balance support with respect for the child's independence.
Themes
family
ambition
love
control
generational conflict
Mood
reflective
concerned
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parent‑child relationships
- career counseling
- education decisions
- cultural expectations
Key Concepts
psychology
parenting
identity formation
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents foster autonomy while guiding?
- What signs show love becoming controlling?
A Different Perspective
The quote may overstate conflict, ignoring many nurturing families.
