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Attack Quote by William Ury

“Instead of attacking, focused on taking away the stick.” quote by William Ury
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““Instead of attacking, focused on taking away the stick.””

William Ury

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Source Book: Getting to Yes, 1981

Instead of attacking, focus on removing the source of conflict

In simple terms: Defuse conflict by eliminating the cause, not attacking people

Key Takeaway

Remove conflict triggers, not people

Themes

conflict resolution negotiation non‑violence

Mood

strategic calm

Type

advice negotiation

When to use this quote

  • business disputes
  • family arguments
  • diplomacy

Key Concepts

interest‑based bargaining mediation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How to identify the real "stick" in disputes?
  • When is confrontation necessary?
A Different Perspective

May ignore underlying power dynamics

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