Acts of love Quote by William Stringfellow
“Listening is a rare happening among human beings. You cannot listen to the word another is speaking if you are preoccupied with your appearance, or with impressing the other, or are trying to decide what you are going to say when the other stops talking, or are debating about whether what is being said is true or relevant or agreeable. Such matters have their place, but only after listening to the word as the word is being uttered. Listening is a primitive act of love in which a person gives himself to another’s word, making himself accessible and vulnerable to that word.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Call to Love, William Stringfellow, 1975
Listening requires full attention, free from self‑interest, allowing another’s words to be received genuinely.
In simple terms: True listening means putting aside self‑concern to hear fully.
Key Takeaway
Practice attentive, self‑less listening.
Themes
communication
empathy
vulnerability
love
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- team meetings
- personal relationships
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
active listening
presence
humility
Questions to Reflect On
- How often do you think about your response while others speak?
- What habits help you stay present?
A Different Perspective
Listening can be hindered by internal distractions and judgment.
