Absurdity Quote by William Hazlitt
“I do not think that what is called Love at first sight is so great an absurdity as it is sometimes imagined to be. We generally make up our minds beforehand to the sort of person we should like, grave or gay, black, brown, or fair; with golden tresses or raven locks; - and when we meet with a complete example of the qualities we admire, the bargain is soon struck.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: On Love and First Impressions, 1820
He argues that love at first sight is less absurd than believed, as we often pre‑judge based on superficial traits before truly meeting someone.
In simple terms: Love at first sight isn’t as irrational as it seems.
Key Takeaway
Question superficial judgments.
Themes
love
perception
social bias
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
philosophical
romantic
When to use this quote
- dating
- social interactions
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
psychology
first impressions
Questions to Reflect On
- Do we truly see beyond appearances?
- How do expectations shape attraction?
A Different Perspective
Pre‑conceptions can cloud true connection.
