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Away Quote by Walter Kirn

“What is it in people, or just in people like me, that would rather let a lie go by, would rather wish it away or minimize it, than point it out and cause the liar embarrassment?” quote by Walter Kirn
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“What is it in people, or just in people like me, that would rather let a lie go by, would rather wish it away or minimize it, than point it out and cause the liar embarrassment?”

Walter Kirn

About This Quote

Source Interview: The New Yorker, Walter Kirn, 2015

People often avoid confronting lies because they fear conflict, social discomfort, or damaging relationships, preferring to preserve harmony over exposing falsehood.

In simple terms: We dodge lies to keep peace, not to expose truth.

Key Takeaway

Consider confronting truth gently to maintain integrity.

Themes

conflict avoidance social harmony truth ethics communication

Mood

anxious reflective

Type

advice philosophical psychological

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace dynamics
  • family gatherings
  • online discussions

Key Concepts

cognitive dissonance social psychology moral courage

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why do you fear the fallout of exposing a lie?
  • How might honest confrontation improve relationships?
A Different Perspective

Avoiding lies can enable deceit and erode trust over time.

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