Despises Quote by W. Somerset Maugham
““Why do you seek the society of someone who hates and despises you?" "My dear fellow, what the hell do you suppose I care what you think of me?””
About This Quote
Source Play: The Circle, 1921
Questioning why one seeks companionship with someone who despises them, and dismissing concern for others’ opinions.
In simple terms: Don’t chase those who hate you; ignore others’ judgments.
Value self‑respect over others’ approval.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- friendship
- romantic pursuits
- career networking
- family ties
- social media
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What relationships truly support you?
- When is it healthy to care about others’ views?
May encourage isolation or disregard for constructive feedback.