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Despises Quote by W. Somerset Maugham

“Why do you seek the society of someone who hates and despises you?" "My dear fellow, what the hell do you suppose I care what you think of me?” quote by W. Somerset Maugham
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““Why do you seek the society of someone who hates and despises you?" "My dear fellow, what the hell do you suppose I care what you think of me?””

W. Somerset Maugham

About This Quote

Source Play: The Circle, 1921

Questioning why one seeks companionship with someone who despises them, and dismissing concern for others’ opinions.

In simple terms: Don’t chase those who hate you; ignore others’ judgments.

Key Takeaway

Value self‑respect over others’ approval.

Themes

relationships self‑worth independence

Mood

reflective defiant assertive

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • romantic pursuits
  • career networking
  • family ties
  • social media

Key Concepts

psychology social dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What relationships truly support you?
  • When is it healthy to care about others’ views?
A Different Perspective

May encourage isolation or disregard for constructive feedback.

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