Fall out of love Quote by W. Somerset Maugham
““A man thinks it quite natural that he should fall out of love with a woman, but it never strikes him for a moment that a woman can do anything so unnatural as to fall out of love with him.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Moon and Sixpence by W. Somerset Maugham, 1919
It criticises the double standard in love: men view their own fading affection as natural but cannot accept a woman doing the same to them.
In simple terms: Men allow themselves to fall out of love but not women.
Key Takeaway
Recognise that love and rejection should be equal for all.
Themes
Love
Gender roles
Ego
Rejection
Double standards
Romantic norms
Mood
ironic
astute
cynical
Type
aphorism
social observation
When to use this quote
- Ending a relationship
- Analysing gender expectations
- Discussing heartbreak
- Reflecting on jealousy after rejection
Key Concepts
Romantic entitlement
gender asymmetry
Questions to Reflect On
- Why does rejection feel especially unnatural to some people?
- Would you grant others the same freedom you claim?
A Different Perspective
The quote reflects older stereotypes; contemporary relationships can be more equal.
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