And love Quote by W. Somerset Maugham
“I want a girl because I want to bring her up so that she shan't make the mistakes I've made. When I look back upon the girl I was I hate myself. But I never had a chance. I'm going to bring up my daughter so that she's free and can stand on her own feet. I´m not going to bring a child into the world, and love her, and bring her up, just so that some man may want to sleep with her so much that he's willing to provide her with board and lodging for the rest of her life.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: Of Human Bondage, 1915
The speaker wishes to raise a daughter free from his own past mistakes, rejecting using a woman as a means for financial security.
In simple terms: Raise a child independently, not as a financial asset.
Key Takeaway
Focus on nurturing autonomy.
Themes
parenthood
self‑reflection
gender roles
Mood
reflective
determined
Type
advice
personal
When to use this quote
- parenting
- family planning
- personal growth
Key Concepts
generational trauma
autonomy
self‑worth
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you ensure your daughter’s true independence?
- What personal patterns are you trying to break?
A Different Perspective
It may overlook societal constraints on women's independence.
