Children Quote by W. Somerset Maugham
““How strange was the relation between parents and children! When they were small the parents doted on them, passed through agonies of apprehension at each childish ailment, and the children clung to their parents with love and adoration; a few years passed, the children grew up, and persons not of their kin were more important to their happiness than father or mother. Indifference displaced the blind and instinctive love of the past. Their meetings were a source of boredom and irritation. Distracted once at the thought of a month's separation they were able now to look forward with equanimity to being parted for years.””
About This Quote
Parent‑child relationships evolve from intense devotion in childhood to detached independence in adulthood, often replacing familial closeness with external priorities.
In simple terms: Adult children grow distant as life priorities shift.
Key Takeaway
Family bonds change over time.
Themes
family
growth
independence
Mood
thoughtful
somber
Type
social observation
cultural critique
When to use this quote
- holiday gatherings
- caregiver discussions
- career transitions
Key Concepts
life‑cycle of relationships
psychology of attachment
Practical Applications
- Maintain regular communication
- Set realistic expectations for involvement
Questions to Reflect On
- How can families navigate changing closeness?
- What role does mutual respect play in adult parent‑child bonds?
A Different Perspective
Some adult children retain close ties; distance isn’t universal.
