Approval Quote by W Somerset Maugham
““When people say they do not care what others think of them, for the most part they deceive themselves. Generally they mean only that no one will know their vulgarities; and at the utmost only that they are willing to act contrary to the opinion of the majority because they are supported by the approval of their neighbours. It is not difficult to be unconventional in the eyes of the world when your unconventionality is but the convention of your set. It affords you then an inordinate amount of self-esteem. You have the self-satisfaction of courage without the inconvenience of danger.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Art of Being Unconventional, W Somerset Maugham, 1925
People claim indifference to others' opinions but often seek hidden approval, gaining confidence without real risk.
In simple terms: People seek hidden approval while pretending indifference.
Key Takeaway
Recognize true motivations behind claimed independence.
Themes
self
conformity
confidence
social approval
authenticity
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- social media behavior
- leadership decisions
- creative work
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
self-perception
Questions to Reflect On
- What drives your desire for approval?
- How can you act authentically without hidden motives?
A Different Perspective
True independence may still be influenced by social circles.
