First person Quote by W.H. Auden
““As for Iago’s jealousy, one cannot believe that a seriously jealous man could behave towards his wife as Iago behaves towards Emilia, for the wife of a jealous husband is the first person to suffer. Not only is the relation of Iago and Emilia, as we see it on stage, without emotional tension, but also Emilia openly refers to a rumor of her infidelity as something already disposed of. Some such squire it was That turned your wit, the seamy side without And made you to suspect me with the Moor. At one point Iago states that, in order to revenge himself on Othello, he will not rest till he is even with him, wife for wife, but, in the play, no attempt at Desdemona’s seduction is made. Iago does not encourage Cassio to make one, and he even prevents Roderigo from getting anywhere near her. Finally, one who seriously desires personal revenge desires to reveal himself. The revenger’s greatest satisfaction is to be able to tell his victim to his face – "You thought you were all-powerful and untouchable and could injure me with impunity. Now you see that you were wrong. Perhaps you have forgotten what you did; let me have the pleasure of reminding you." When at the end of the play, Othello asks Iago in bewilderment why he has thus ensnared his soul and body, if his real motive were revenge for having been cuckolded or unjustly denied promotion, he could have said so, instead of refusing to explain.””
About This Quote
Source Play: Othello by William Shakespeare, 1603
Iago’s revenge is driven by personal spite, not jealousy, and he seeks to confront his victim directly rather than act through others.
In simple terms: Iago wants personal revenge and confronts his victim face to face.
Seek honest motives before acting.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal vendettas
- relationship conflict
- theatrical analysis
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What drives a person to seek direct confrontation?
- How does jealousy differ from personal revenge?
Iago’s actions may be exaggerated for dramatic effect, limiting real‑world applicability.