Doing things Quote by Virginia Woolf
““How much she wanted it - that people should look pleased as she came in, Clarissa thought and turned and walked back towards Bond Street, annoyed, because it was silly to have other reasons for doing things. Much rather would she have been one of those people like Richard who did things for themselves, whereas, she thought, waiting to cross, half the time she did things not simply, not for themselves; but to make people think this or that; perfect idiocy she knew (and now the policeman held up his hand) for no one was ever for a second taken in.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Mrs Dalloway, 1925
She reflects on acting for others’ approval versus authentic self‑motivation, seeing the former as foolish.
In simple terms: She prefers acting for herself, not to impress others.
Key Takeaway
Choose authenticity over seeking approval.
Themes
authenticity
self‑image
social pressure
self‑motivation
Mood
reflective
introspective
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- career decisions
- personal relationships
- creative work
Key Concepts
existentialism
psychology
identity
conformity
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you act for yourself or for others?
- What would change if you stopped seeking approval?
A Different Perspective
Authentic actions may still be judged, causing inner conflict.
