Deals Quote by Vanessa Carlton
“Now, performing is second nature and I love every second of it. It is a very emotional thing when I can't play a song; maybe I'm hitting on something that I don't want to deal with. All of it is so personal. It is like therapy”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Rolling Stone Magazine, 2005
Performing music becomes instinctive and therapeutic, turning personal emotions into art, while inability to play can feel like confronting unresolved feelings.
In simple terms: Music feels natural and heals, but missing a song can expose inner pain.
Embrace music as emotional release.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- concerts
- personal practice
- songwriting
- music therapy
- performance anxiety
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What emotions surface when you can't play?
- How can you channel that frustration into growth?
Sometimes performance can reinforce negative self‑judgment instead of healing.