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Love Quote by V.S. Carnes

“My name, sir, is Virgilia Wessex. I am a Sunday school teacher from Sussex, England, and I have given you no leave to address me as anything.” His mouth seemed to almost smile, but if so, he caught it just on the brink and decided against it. “Well, I’ve just given the gent who found you first an…” quote by V.S. Carnes
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““My name, sir, is Virgilia Wessex. I am a Sunday school teacher from Sussex, England, and I have given you no leave to address me as anything.” His mouth seemed to almost smile, but if so, he caught it just on the brink and decided against it. “Well, I’ve just given the gent who found you first an obscene amount of money to address you however I please… Gillia.””

V.S. Carnes

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Milan Kundera, 1984

A character asserts authority over how they are addressed, rejecting imposed intimacy and demanding respect.

In simple terms: Demand respect for personal identity.

Key Takeaway

Insist on proper titles.

Themes

identity respect power dynamics

Mood

assertive defensive

Type

dialogue character

When to use this quote

  • personal interactions
  • formal settings
  • customer service

Key Concepts

self‑determination social hierarchy

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do you feel your title reflects your true self?
  • How does language shape respect?
A Different Perspective

May be perceived as overly formal or rigid.

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