About yourself Quote by Tyler Blackburn
“I used to want to kill myself because I had lost so much of who I knew I was because of all the other invalidation from people. It sends you spiraling where you're like, Wait, I know I have this quality, I know what my integrity is - until you're being fed all this false information about yourself. You start to wonder why. You don't feel good about yourself because you no longer believe in yourself.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: Personal testimony, 2023
The quote describes how external invalidation can erode self‑identity, leading to self‑destructive thoughts and a loss of confidence in one's own values.
In simple terms: Invalidation can make you doubt yourself and feel hopeless.
Key Takeaway
Seek validation from within and supportive sources.
Themes
self‑esteem
mental health
identity
resilience
validation
Mood
reflective
hopeful
determined
Type
personal
motivational
psychological
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- support groups
- journaling
- mindfulness practice
- setting boundaries
Key Concepts
psychology
self‑concept
social influence
Questions to Reflect On
- What internal values can you reconnect with?
- How can you create a supportive environment?
A Different Perspective
External opinions can be overwhelming and may not reflect reality, making self‑reconstruction difficult.
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