Every day Quote by Toya Wright
““the sickness of drugs or her reasons for turning to drugs to escape her reality. I did that for a while and I continued to try to help my mother. Every time I would help her, she would go back and go back and go back and go back. It was just so frustrating. I even did my television show to give her an outlet to help other women, to show women that she was strong enough to do it, because I really truly, in my heart, believe that she is. That didn't quite work. I spent plenty of years trying to get her off drugs, but from the outside because I still wasn't in the hood with her all the time watching her do it every day. I always used to try to take her out of the hood and bring her into my world that I was blessed to have. I wanted her to live the right way and didn’t want her to deal with running the streets every day. It was a struggle with my brothers because they had their way of handling her and handling things that I really couldn't quite understand. At the same time, like I said, I didn't understand it then. It””
About This Quote
Source Memoir: “My Mother’s Struggle” (Autobiography, 2018)
The narrator recounts endless attempts to help her mother escape drug addiction, confronting frustration, familial conflict, and feeling powerless from afar.
In simple terms: Helping from distance is painful.
Seek supportive networks.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- counseling
- community programs
- family meetings
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How to support a loved one from afar?
- What resources assist families?
Addiction may need professional aid.