Bears Quote by Timothy Keller
“...God's grace and forgiveness, while free to the recipient, are always costly for the giver… From the earliest parts of the Bible, it was understood that God could not forgive without sacrifice. No one who is seriously wronged can "just forgive" the perpetrator… But when you forgive, that means you absorb the loss and the debt. You bear it yourself. All forgiveness, then, is costly.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Prodigal God by Timothy Keller, 2008
Forgiveness demands personal sacrifice; it is not a free gift but a costly act of bearing another's burden.
In simple terms: Forgiveness costs the giver.
Key Takeaway
Be prepared to bear the cost of forgiveness.
Themes
forgiveness
cost
burden
grace
Mood
thoughtful
serious
Type
ethical
spiritual
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- conflict resolution
- personal healing
- spiritual practice
- leadership
Key Concepts
theology
ethics
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- Are you willing to bear the cost of forgiveness?
- What boundaries protect you from undue sacrifice?
A Different Perspective
Forgiveness may be exploited if not balanced with accountability.
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