Acknowledgment Quote by Desmond Tutu
“True reconciliation is never cheap, for it is based on forgiveness which is costly. Forgiveness in turn depends on repentance, which has to be based on an acknowledgment of what was done wrong, and therefore on disclosure of the truth. You cannot forgive what you do not know.”
About This Quote
True reconciliation demands costly forgiveness, which itself requires repentance, acknowledgment of wrongdoing, and truth disclosure; without knowledge of the harm, forgiveness cannot occur.
In simple terms: Forgiveness needs truth and repentance to be genuine.
Reconciliation hinges on honest acknowledgment.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- post-conflict peace talks
- family mediation
- organizational culture change
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- Facilitate transparent dialogue
- Encourage personal accountability
Questions to Reflect On
- What are the risks of forgiving without full disclosure?
- How can societies balance truth-telling with reconciliation?
In some contexts, forgiveness may be pursued without full truth, risking superficial resolution.