Child Quote by Tig Notaro
““he admitted that he had projected his ideas of how life should go based on the route he had taken himself. He said he never related to me or understood me because of this. He declared that he now realized it’s not the child’s responsibility to teach the parent who they are; it’s the parent’s responsibility to learn who their child is.””
About This Quote
Source Podcast: 2020 episode of "The Tig Show", interview on parenting and self-awareness
Parents must learn their child's identity rather than expecting the child to teach them.
In simple terms: Parents should understand their kids.
Listen to your child’s needs.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family therapy
- parent‑child communication
- personal development
- coaching
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice empathy with your child?
- What assumptions about yourself might you need to revisit?
It can be challenging for adults to unlearn ingrained expectations.