Love Quote by Thomas Traherne
“Had we not loved ourselves at all, we could never have been obliged to love anything. So that self-love is the basis of all love…”
About This Quote
Source Poem: The Soul's Integrity, 1650s
Self‑love is the prerequisite for loving others; without valuing ourselves we cannot truly care for anything else.
In simple terms: Love starts with self‑respect.
Cultivate self‑acceptance first.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- relationship counseling
- parenting
- team building
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your self‑esteem affect your capacity to love others?
- Can self‑love coexist with humility?
Self‑love can become selfish if not balanced with empathy.