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“Being well regulated in relatedness is the deeply gratifying state that people seek ceaselessly in romance, religions, and cults; in husbands and wives, pets, softball teams, bowling leagues, and a thousand other features of human life driven by the thirst for sustaining affiliations.” quote by Thomas Lewis
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““Being well regulated in relatedness is the deeply gratifying state that people seek ceaselessly in romance, religions, and cults; in husbands and wives, pets, softball teams, bowling leagues, and a thousand other features of human life driven by the thirst for sustaining affiliations.””

Thomas Lewis

About This Quote

People constantly seek deep, regulated connections in many social groups, driven by a desire for belonging.

In simple terms: Humans crave strong, stable relationships.

Key Takeaway

Foster healthy affiliations.

Themes

relationships belonging social groups

Mood

thoughtful hopeful

Type

psychological observational

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • marriage
  • team sports
  • religious groups

Key Concepts

attachment theory community dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What affiliations give you fulfillment?
  • How do you balance belonging with independence?
A Different Perspective

Overdependence on groups can limit individuality.

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