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“... if you desire to marry you must realize that a mistress is won by the good temper and grace displayed while dancing... for dancing is practiced to reveal whether lovers are in good health and sound of limb, after which they are permitted to kiss their mistresses in order that they may touch…” quote by Thoinot Arbeau
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“... if you desire to marry you must realize that a mistress is won by the good temper and grace displayed while dancing... for dancing is practiced to reveal whether lovers are in good health and sound of limb, after which they are permitted to kiss their mistresses in order that they may touch and savor one another thus to ascertain if they are shapley or emit an unpleasant odor as of bad meat. Therefore, from this standpoint, quite apart from the many other advantages to be derived from dancing, it becomes an essential to a well-ordered society.”

Thoinot Arbeau

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Source Treatise: Orchésographie (1589) by Thoinot Arbeau

Dancing serves as a social test of health, temperament, and suitability for marriage, reflecting cultural values of physical fitness and moral character.

In simple terms: Dance reveals health and character for marriage.

Key Takeaway

Consider dance as a social health indicator.

Themes

courtship dance health social norms marriage character

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

informative historical cultural

When to use this quote

  • courtship rituals
  • social gatherings

Key Concepts

cultural practice social signaling physical fitness

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does modern dating assess compatibility?
  • What non‑physical traits matter most?
A Different Perspective

The view may overlook non‑physical qualities important in relationships.

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