Behaviour Quote by Thoinot Arbeau
“In dancing the Alman the young men sometimes steal the damsels from their partners and he who has been robbed seeks to obtain another damsel. But I do not hold with this behaviour because it may lead to quarrels and heart burning.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Le Ballet Comique de la Reine, 1589
Stealing partners in dance can cause conflict and emotional pain, so it is discouraged.
In simple terms: Taking others’ partners leads to fights and hurt feelings.
Key Takeaway
Avoid causing jealousy and resentment.
Themes
relationships
etiquette
conflict
emotions
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
advice
ethical
When to use this quote
- social gatherings
- dance events
- courtship
- team sports
Key Concepts
social dynamics
honor
reputation
Questions to Reflect On
- Is it worth risking relationships for a fleeting thrill?
- How can we respect others while having fun?
A Different Perspective
People may argue that occasional flirtation is harmless.
