Connections Quote by Terry Goodkind
“Her green eyes came unafraid to his. The connection was so intense that it threatened to drain his sense of self. He felt that he had always known her, that she had always been a part of him, that her needs were his needs.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Sword of Truth series by Terry Goodkind, 1994–2005
Intense connection can blur personal boundaries, making another’s needs feel like one’s own, risking loss of self-identity.
In simple terms: Deep connection can erase personal boundaries.
Guard personal identity while empathizing.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- friendships
- teamwork
- counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you maintain self while deeply caring for another?
- When does empathy become self‑sacrifice?
Intense bonds may lead to codependency and loss of autonomy.